The hardest struggle of all is to be something different from what the average man is.

~Robert H. Schuller

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सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं
सच है सतत संघर्ष ही ।
संघर्ष से हटकर जिये तो क्‍या जिये हम या कि तुम,
जो नत हुआ वह मृत हुआ,ज्‍यो वृन्‍त से झरकर कुसुम ।
जो पंथ भूल कर रूका नहीं,
जो हार देख झुका नहीं,
जिसने मरण को भी लिया हो जीत, है जीवन वही।
सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं।

ऐसा करो जिससे न प्राणों में कहीं जड़ता रहे,
जो है जहां चुपचाप अपने आप से लड़ता रहे।
जो भी परिस्थितियां मिलें,
कांटे चुभें, कलियां खिलें,
टूटे नहीं इंसान बस संदेश जीवन का यही।
सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं।

हमने रचा, आओ हमीं अब तोड़ दें इस प्‍यार को
यह क्‍या मिलन, मिलना वही जो मोड़ दे मंझधार को।
जो साथ फूलों के चले,
जो ढाल पाते ही ढले,
यह जिंदगी क्‍या जिंदगी जो सिर्फ पानी-सी बही।
सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं।

अपने हृदय का सत्‍य अपने आप हमको खोजना
अपने नयन का नीर अपने आप हमको पोंछना।
आकाश सुख देगा नहीं,
धरती पसीजी है कहीं,
हर एक राही को भटक कर ही दिशा मिलती रही।
सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं।

बेकार है मुस्‍कान से ढकना हृदय की खिन्‍नता
आदर्श हो सकती नहीं तन और मन की भिन्‍नता।
जब तक बंधी है चेतना,
जब तक प्रणय दुख से घना,
तब न मानूंगा कभी इस राह को ही मैं नहीं।
सच हम नहीं, सच तुम नहीं।
~ Jagdish Gupt

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Once all struggle is grasped, miracles are possible.

Mao Tse-Tung

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Lessons of the Square Watermelon :

Japanese grocery stores had a problem. They are much smaller than shops in the USA and therefore don't have room to waste. Watermelons, big and round, wasted a lot of space. Most people would simply tell the grocery stores that watermelons grow round and there is nothing that can be done about it.
That is how majority of people would respond. But some Japanese farmers took a different approach. If the supermarkets wanted a square watermelon, they asked themselves, 'How can we provide one?' It wasn't long before they invented the square watermelon.

The solution to the problem of round watermelons was not to solve as the farmers did not assume it was impossible and simply asked how it could be done.
They found out that if you put the watermelon in a square box when they are growing, the watermelon will take on the shape of the box - and grow into a square fruit.

This made the grocery stores happy and had the added benefit that it was much easier and cost effective to ship the watermelons. Consumers also loved them because they took less space in their refrigerators which are much smaller than those in the US meaning that the growers could charge a premium price for them.

Few Lessons from this story which may help us :

Don't Assume: The major problem was that most people had always seen round watermelons so they automatically assumed that square watermelons were impossible before even thinking about the question.. Things that we have been doing a certain way our entire life have taken on the aura of the round watermelon and we likely don't even take the time to consider if there is another way to do it. Breaking ourselves from assuming this way can greatly improve our overall life as we are constantly looking for new and better ways to do things.

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Question habits: The best way to tackle these assumptions is to question our habits. If we can make an effort to question the way we do things on a consistent basis, we will find that we can continually improve the way that we work. Forming habits when they have been well thought out is usually a POSITIVE THING, but most of us have adopted our habits from various people and places without even thinking about them.

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Be creative: When faced with a problem, be POSITIVE AND CREATIVE in looking for a solution. This often requires thinking outside the box. Most people who viewed this question likely thought they were being asked how they could genetically alter water melons to grow square which would be a much more difficult process to accomplish. By looking at the question from an alternative perspective, however, the solution was quite simple. Being creative and looking at things in different ways in all portions of our live will help us find solutions to many problems where others can't see them.

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Look for a POSITIVE WAY: The square watermelon question was simply seeking a better and more convenient way to do something. The stores had flagged a problem they were having and asked if a solution was possible. It's impossible to find a better way if we are never asking the question in the first place. Get into the habit of asking our self, 'Is there a better way we could be doing this?' and we will find there often is.

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Impossibilities often aren’t: If we begin with the notion that something is impossible, then it obviously will be for us. If, on the other hand, we decide to see if something is possible or not, we will find out through trial and error. Take away the lessons and apply them to all areas in our life. We will find that by consistently applying them, we will constantly be improving all aspects of our life.

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